I am pretty sure most of you have been there.
When someone - as in many - would give me advice about what I was doing "wrong", I'd try to explain why I did certain actions. That didn't work very well at all - the discussion often ended up as a debate similar to the ones you have when you talk politics or religion. There really is no way you are going to change their mind or you theirs. Seems to be the nature of the beast. OR, you think everyone on a horse knows more than you so you think they are always right and you must always be wrong.
Each of us have different opinions and certain things work well for us and/or out little darling, but not necessarily for someone else.
What is the solution? Just say "okay" or "thank you" with a nice smile and go your own way and do your own thing. They can't argue with that .
Listen and then decide for yourself if the point is valid. And, only you know your own little darling and how best to attend to his/her needs and comfort - no one else really does. So simply listen and make your own decisions.
Okay ? Thank you !
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